Friday, April 21, 2023
root-cause mind-sets
Thursday, August 25, 2022
i've heard that before
Leaders who go through a serious 360-degree feedback process will often reflect on a comment or piece of feedback and say something to the effect of, “I’ve heard that before. My (husband/wife/partner/roommate) has told me that, but I didn’t think it was that important.” But now, when a dozen or more people collectively observe that the leader isn’t a good listener, for example, the message is louder and clearer. The 360-degree feedback process underscores the seriousness and credibility of the feedback.
The anonymity of process means that the feedback was given by colleagues with the understanding that they would be confidential. The result is far greater honesty and candor. And, we’re happy to say that after decades of conducting and reviewing thousands of 360-degree feedback reports, we almost never see messages that are intentionally barbed or mean-spirited.
Jack Zenger and Joseph Folkman
"What Makes a 360-Degree Review Successful?" Harvard Business Review. December 23, 2020
Monday, May 3, 2021
negaphobia
Typically, presentations avoid problems and emphasize the good. This is the best way to lose your credibility. Everything that sugarcoats your point, leave that at home. The audience trusts in honesty and not in perfection anymore.
"10 Golden Principles for an Effective Presentation" MARTECHseries. December 2, 2019
Wednesday, April 7, 2021
all politics is personal
Joe Biden
Promise Me, Dad: A Year of Hope, Hardship, and Purpose. By Joe Biden. Flatiron Books. 2017. Preface. 129
Thursday, January 28, 2021
doesn't suddenly become dishonest
The Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball. 1969. p.215
Friday, January 1, 2021
laugh often and much
This [quote]... which is attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson, has made such an impact on Amazon founder and CEO Jeff Bezos that he hangs it up on his fridge.
To laugh often and much; to win the respect of the intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the beauty in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that one life has breathed easier because you lived here. This is to have succeeded.
These are the fruits you bear from a life well lived by consciously choosing to do the things you're passionate about -- the things you are called to do that make you "tap dance to work" every day, to borrow an expression from one of the many books about billionaire Warren Buffett.
Bezos can testify: "You don't choose your passions, your passions choose you," he once said. "All of us are gifted with certain passions, and the people who are lucky are the ones who get to follow those things."
Following your passions comes with added benefits: you love coming to work because you love what you do. Buffett said it best: "In the world of business, the people who are most successful are those who are doing what they love."
"According to Jeff Bezos, This May Be the Best Definition of Success He's Ever Read" Inc. April 24, 2020
Sunday, November 8, 2020
having better arguments
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
one great thing
Thursday, July 14, 2016
unintended messages

Sunday, May 22, 2016
there is always a way forward
Saturday, April 23, 2016
be yourself

Wednesday, March 9, 2016
the power of personal integrity

Tuesday, September 8, 2015
servant-leaders exercise the following traits
- Understand the value of every human soul.
- Have an inborn or developed sense of caring for others.
- Are quick to volunteer to take pressure off someone else.
- Rush to the aid of someone who is going through an embarrassing or humiliating experience.
- Treat all people on a basis of equality.
- Do not feel that tasks they expect others to do are too demeaning for themselves.
- Are not offended by disruptions of people who are themselves going through emotional traumas or stress.
- Expect more from themselves than they do from anyone else.
- Are quick to compliment, give credit, and build up those who perform a given task.
- Judge people by their potential, not necessarily by one single negative experience.
- Do not take credit for someone else’s achievements and love to share credit for any of their own accomplishments.
- Get the facts before finding fault or criticizing another person.
- Help all people feel they had a real part in the success of a project.
- Detest practical jokes or statements that focus humiliation or attention on one soul.
- Always constructively criticize in private and compliment in public.
- Are absolutely honest in their work.
- Are equally fair with all under their direction.
- Are always willing to listen to both sides of a quarrel, discussion, or issue. They know it is a pretty thin pancake that has only one side. . . .
- Make themselves accessible to all, not just those with position or power.
Friday, August 28, 2015
to be most candid
Monday, August 24, 2015
respect behaviors
- Looking at computer screens and cell phones during conversations.
- Outburst of anger.
- Cursing and slang.
- One sided conversations. Not listening.
- Wasting people’s time.
- Asking people to re-do work, even though clear instructions weren’t given up front.
- Not following up.
- Not showing up for meetings.
- Aggressiveness.
- Lies.
- Speak to aspirations.
- Talk more about strengths than weaknesses.
- Ask, “What do you think?”
- Take time to ponder suggestions.
- Focus on issues not personalities during disagreements.
- Say please and thank you.
- Feeling understood.