Wednesday, July 6, 2016

patience is...

[P]atience is not passive resignation, nor is it failing to act because of our fears. Patience means active waiting and enduring. It means staying with something and doing all that we can—working, hoping, and exercising faith; bearing hardship with fortitude, even when the desires of our hearts are delayed. Patience is not simply enduring; it is enduring well! 


"Continue in Patience", Ensign, May 2010, 56–59

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

let you talk about it

Quora user Rajesh Setty says it's important to allow your conversation partner to reveal what interests them.

"You will be tempted to interrupt and share what you care about every now and then," he says. "The trick is to hold off and focus on the other person first. You will get your chance."

In fact, recent research suggests that talking about yourself is inherently pleasurable; it stimulates the same reward centers in the brain that are lit up by sex, cocaine, and good food. So it makes sense that people would feel positively about a conversation in which they held the spotlight.


Sunday, July 3, 2016

efficient management vs. effective leadership

Efficient management without effective leadership is, as one individual has phrased it, "like straightening deck chairs on the Titanic." No management success can compensate for failure in leadership.


Saturday, July 2, 2016

a little neglect

A little neglect may breed great mischief; for want of a nail the shoe was lost; for want of a shoe the horse was lost; and for want of a horse the rider was lost, being overtaken and slain by the enemy; all for the want of care about a horse-nail.


Benjamin Franklin
Autobiography and Other Writings by Benjamin Franklin, edited by Russel B. Nye. 1949. p.171

Friday, July 1, 2016

do the right thing


As one of [George Washington’s] ablest biographers put it, his fellow burgess knew that [Patrick] Henry could be counted on to say the magnificent thing, whereas Washington could be counted on to say little, but do the right thing.



His Excellency: George Washington. Alfred A. Knopf. 2004. p.64